Virtuoso tip number 1: It’s all about pleasure, not performance

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“He drove his tongue inside her, setting off another shattering moan that was music to his ears. She was quite an instrument to play, so finely tuned, and if he touched her right, she made the most glorious sounds — raw, intense, absolutely delicious noises of pleasure as he plundered her with his tongue. — Lauren Blakely


Here are 5 misconceptions about the female orgasm that are promoted as fact

Female orgasms misconceptions.
Female orgasms misconceptions.
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A mental health tale from the dark-side

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Meeting My New BFF


Three techniques this life coach uses to help herself and her clients get off the couch

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And looked better with one less product

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Let’s talk about dead bedrooms and the male sex deficit

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Forget porn moves; here are insights from the largest study ever conducted on women’s sexual preferences

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Can a good spanking cure your sexual hang-ups?

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It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure — Marquis de Sade


Why desire and power intertwine in most women’s sexual fantasies

Rape fantasies and kink in women.
Rape fantasies and kink in women.
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“…I imagine I’ve been brought to some warehouse, or place like that, against my will. I’m stripped naked and the only thing I’m allowed to wear is a black silk mask. This is because whatever powerful person has brought me there does not want the men — yes, always more than one in this fantasy — for whom he has procured me, to know who I am. In this way, though he’s brought me there against my will, he somehow wants to protect me too… That’s because they’re so hot with desire for me that they can barely control themselves.”…


How your masturbation style affects your ability to orgasm with a man

Can’t orgasm with a partner only through masturbation.
Can’t orgasm with a partner only through masturbation.
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Kaye Smith PhD

I am a life coach, sex educator, and fine art photographer. Check me out at https://kayesmithphd.com/

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