What is Mind-Blowing Sex Anyway?

The science of how to have great sex

1. Being Present

Participants spoke of experiencing heightened bodily sensations and awareness while turning their minds off. They were fully embodied,[and] in touch with sensory experience…

2. Authenticity

Honesty and openness to one’s own desires were critical elements in several ways: Firstly, they serve as prerequisites for having great sex; that is, one cannot typically communicate one’s desires without some knowledge of them. Secondly, the feeling of being uninhibited and un-self-conscious was freeing and energizing.

3. Intense Emotional Connection

4. Sexual and Erotic Intimacy

5. Communication

6. Transcendence

Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.

— Simone de Beauvoir

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